"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pettman

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...you feel like you miss your gf, like the feeling of you want to go and see her now type thing?

I mean in my previous post about what to do i got some real good advice and put it into practice and it worked!!! Thank you for those who took the time to reply!!

But this feeling I hate, I mean i just saw her last night and this morning, I feel like i should slap myself and say stop being a **** and go do something! like work or see mates, just forget her etc what do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes. Keep busy unless you wanna lower her interest levels.
 
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I went through this same situation. Trust me. She doesn't want you anymore. So be a man and at least pretend you don't care for her until you get over her. Don't act like you hate her, but be carefree of what she does or says.

By all means, GET OUT THERE AND TALK TO OTHER WOMEN!! Best way to get over a girl is to get under another one, but DO NOT CALL, TEXT, THINK ABOUT YOUR EX! Good luck.
 
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No contact, bro. Stay strong.
 
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