"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What to do when...

pettman

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...you feel like you miss your gf, like the feeling of you want to go and see her now type thing?

I mean in my previous post about what to do i got some real good advice and put it into practice and it worked!!! Thank you for those who took the time to reply!!

But this feeling I hate, I mean i just saw her last night and this morning, I feel like i should slap myself and say stop being a **** and go do something! like work or see mates, just forget her etc what do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lion

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Yes. Keep busy unless you wanna lower her interest levels.
 

kdnash82

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I went through this same situation. Trust me. She doesn't want you anymore. So be a man and at least pretend you don't care for her until you get over her. Don't act like you hate her, but be carefree of what she does or says.

By all means, GET OUT THERE AND TALK TO OTHER WOMEN!! Best way to get over a girl is to get under another one, but DO NOT CALL, TEXT, THINK ABOUT YOUR EX! Good luck.
 

nonchalant

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No contact, bro. Stay strong.
 
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