"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pettman

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...you feel like you miss your gf, like the feeling of you want to go and see her now type thing?

I mean in my previous post about what to do i got some real good advice and put it into practice and it worked!!! Thank you for those who took the time to reply!!

But this feeling I hate, I mean i just saw her last night and this morning, I feel like i should slap myself and say stop being a **** and go do something! like work or see mates, just forget her etc what do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lion

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Yes. Keep busy unless you wanna lower her interest levels.
 

kdnash82

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I went through this same situation. Trust me. She doesn't want you anymore. So be a man and at least pretend you don't care for her until you get over her. Don't act like you hate her, but be carefree of what she does or says.

By all means, GET OUT THERE AND TALK TO OTHER WOMEN!! Best way to get over a girl is to get under another one, but DO NOT CALL, TEXT, THINK ABOUT YOUR EX! Good luck.
 

nonchalant

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No contact, bro. Stay strong.
 
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