I‘d worry about this more than any breakup.We go 50/50 on the rent but the rental agreement is in her name. We are renting a house in Texas.
Not to play life coach, but if you paying rent at 40 years old with your girlfriend’s name on the lease, you got bigger problems than her telling you to go to hell. At 40, a man should at least own a house or condo, if not 2 or 3. What have you been doing all these years with your money?
A man should not move in with his girlfriend unless he has major assets and he is hiding them or something. There should be no moving in together period. Yet if a man is desperately in love with her, she should move in to his place.
I do ok and I’m still constantly worried about money. Don’t know how you guys can rent at 40.