"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do when you really hurt her?

Voice

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Man I'm in a bad situation. I was with this girl in my dorm, actually she lives right next to me, for like a month or so. We broke it off mostly because my interest level in her wasn't really that high. Anyway I told her we should just be friends. I still like her as a person, just not sexually. Anyway to make a long story short, I guess she still liked me and I said something really stupid to her that probably hurt her a lot. I was just kidding but I was like "eww it's Gabi" and then I ignored her. I actually thought it was funny and I was just messing around, wasn't serious at all. I guess she took it personally and she basically hates me now.

It's real awkward because she used to absolutely love me. Now she hates me with a passion. She blocked me on facebook and deleted all pictures of me on it. She even got her roommate to block me too. This may sound juvenile but I just don't want her to hate me. It's really bad because she's real popular with most of the girls in my dorm.

How do I fix this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Five To One

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Give her some room for a couple days and then have a face to face talk with her. Start off with asking her how she feels about the entire situation and then just talk about it. Dont be an apoligetic b1tch but let her know that you werent thinking and is sorry for it.

If she doesnt forgive you after that then theres nothing else to do, just leave her be.
 

Voice

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Good advice, that's kinda what I was gonna do. Thanks
 

BlakeW5

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Apologize duh! Don't be a b1tch about it though. Just let her know you were joking and you didn't intend to hurt her feelings
 
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