"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to do when you really hurt her?

Voice

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Man I'm in a bad situation. I was with this girl in my dorm, actually she lives right next to me, for like a month or so. We broke it off mostly because my interest level in her wasn't really that high. Anyway I told her we should just be friends. I still like her as a person, just not sexually. Anyway to make a long story short, I guess she still liked me and I said something really stupid to her that probably hurt her a lot. I was just kidding but I was like "eww it's Gabi" and then I ignored her. I actually thought it was funny and I was just messing around, wasn't serious at all. I guess she took it personally and she basically hates me now.

It's real awkward because she used to absolutely love me. Now she hates me with a passion. She blocked me on facebook and deleted all pictures of me on it. She even got her roommate to block me too. This may sound juvenile but I just don't want her to hate me. It's really bad because she's real popular with most of the girls in my dorm.

How do I fix this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Five To One

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Give her some room for a couple days and then have a face to face talk with her. Start off with asking her how she feels about the entire situation and then just talk about it. Dont be an apoligetic b1tch but let her know that you werent thinking and is sorry for it.

If she doesnt forgive you after that then theres nothing else to do, just leave her be.
 

Voice

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Good advice, that's kinda what I was gonna do. Thanks
 

BlakeW5

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Apologize duh! Don't be a b1tch about it though. Just let her know you were joking and you didn't intend to hurt her feelings
 
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