"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to do When she starts to cry hearing a romantic song

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Hi
My buddies, I need an advice, the last date I was ****ing with a HB7 I met three weeks ago. When we were ****ing she started to cry hearing a romantic song, I asked her what happened and she just answered me "nothing happens". Well I think it is because of her former boyfriend. Well, I dont care about him, but this has already happened to me with another HB and it is disgusting when they say to you, just nothing, when thery are crying.
I would like to know what to do in this situacion, what to say to her, how to act, what kind of attitude should I take. I would like to hear your opinions, buddies.
Giovanni
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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uh...that's not a good sign... at al

I was going to say usually that means it was her an someone elses song.. her crying means she still has feelings for him.

I would leave..nothing to act out. she is still in love or at least she thinks she is.
 
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Who cares about how SHE feels!? Get your nut off in her!

I know I sounded like a jerk just then.
 
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...and then tell 'er you're gonna fvck 'er in the mouth.
 
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I dont want to act like a jerk

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Buddies
Of course I know that she cryes because of someone. I dont care this, it has happened to me with other HB, but I would like to know how to act in this very moment that she cries, what to say, I dont want to act like a jerk, it would be silly. I know guys that as DJs this kind of situations has happened to you. I would like to hear you advices, buddies.
Giovanni
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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People might hate me for this, but ask if she wants you to stop. If she says yes, stop. Who knows the reason she may be crying and if its for the wrong reasons, you might get a visit from the Police even if you didnt do anything wrong. Sh1t like that happens.
 
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Sounds like a head-screwed attention ***** but maybe I'm just a cynic. Either that or she never gets off ("nothing happens") and she's getting tired of being humped by guys with tiny weiners. I could see it either way.
 
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