I met a gorgeous woman about three weeks ago. We go and come back from work on the same bus and that's how I know her. We started talking a week ago. We don't talk anything flirty but regular things. Actually I asked her about weekend and asked her for a drinks. She's got a son of 15 and naturally she mentioned that. But she asked for my number and and we exchanged digits after a week of talking. I said I'll call her and we'll fix a time. I called her on saturday afternoon but she didn't pickup. I didn't call or text her since then. I know I'll meet her monday morning and possibly evening as well while waiting for the bus. But I have a plan of not meeting or calling her for the next few days. Should I call or text her? Or take a break for few days?
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spiegel549
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When you called did you leave a message? Saying who it was, asking for her to call you back, leaving your number?
If you did, then just wait a few days and see what happens when you run into her.
If you just let it ring and hung up, call again in a day or 2 and LEAVE A MESSAGE saying "Hi its xyz, I would like to take you out for those drinks sometime this week, give me a call at 123-456-7890."
If you did, then just wait a few days and see what happens when you run into her.
If you just let it ring and hung up, call again in a day or 2 and LEAVE A MESSAGE saying "Hi its xyz, I would like to take you out for those drinks sometime this week, give me a call at 123-456-7890."
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No I haven't left her a message coz she has my number. It was her who asked for the number and gave me a missed call then and there. Even she was asking me whether she spell my name correctly. And as I mentioned I see her everyday twice on bus and we sit by each other. So I'm not a mere stranger to her. I'm just confused.
No I haven't left her a message coz she has my number. It was her who asked for the number and gave me a missed call then and there. Even she was asking me whether she spell my name correctly. And as I mentioned I see her everyday twice on bus and we sit by each other. So I'm not a mere stranger to her. I'm just confused.
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It's still a good idea to leave a message. For all she knows, you could've been butt-dialing her. And even if that's not true, at least by leaving a message you'll have no doubt in YOUR mind whether or not she knows you called.rezaone said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.