"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What to do when she accuses you of sleeping around

dudewut

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-banging this girl
-we are not official (I beat around the bush when she brings it up)
-She asked me to go out tomorrow night, I really cant because legit busy (its a friggin weekday ffs...tsk tsk)
-She said she is hurt about the rejection and excuses and then accused me that I maybe sleeping with another girl


How must one handle this?

Obligatory: PROJECTION! I really couldnt care less
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dudewut

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BUMP

I guess she thinks we are exclusive I don't wanna correct her otherwise she might go "oh, if we are not together then maybe we should stop seeing each other" or other gay sh!t women say

What do?
 
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dudewut said:
-banging this girl
-we are not official (I beat around the bush when she brings it up)
-She asked me to go out tomorrow night, I really cant because legit busy (its a friggin weekday ffs...tsk tsk)
-She said she is hurt about the rejection and excuses and then accused me that I maybe sleeping with another girl


How must one handle this?

Obligatory: PROJECTION! I really couldnt care less
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"Maybe you're taking this a little bit too seriously. I'll talk to you later."

Throw it back on her, because it's not YOUR fault anyways. It's her fault for getting upset when you're not even official.
If she thinks you're the kind of guy that would do that, and you don't want the girl you choose to think that, just next her. Maybe she'll change her mind.
If not, oh well. You'll find a better girl.
 
Who Dares Win

Who Dares Win

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Agree and amplify, then when she is angry or smiling change topic.


-Sure I do, do you expect them to pay me just for dancing?
-I do because they love me for my personality and not just my body
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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