"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do when she accuses you of sleeping around

dudewut

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-banging this girl
-we are not official (I beat around the bush when she brings it up)
-She asked me to go out tomorrow night, I really cant because legit busy (its a friggin weekday ffs...tsk tsk)
-She said she is hurt about the rejection and excuses and then accused me that I maybe sleeping with another girl


How must one handle this?

Obligatory: PROJECTION! I really couldnt care less
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dudewut

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BUMP

I guess she thinks we are exclusive I don't wanna correct her otherwise she might go "oh, if we are not together then maybe we should stop seeing each other" or other gay sh!t women say

What do?
 

Sneevox

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dudewut said:
-banging this girl
-we are not official (I beat around the bush when she brings it up)
-She asked me to go out tomorrow night, I really cant because legit busy (its a friggin weekday ffs...tsk tsk)
-She said she is hurt about the rejection and excuses and then accused me that I maybe sleeping with another girl


How must one handle this?

Obligatory: PROJECTION! I really couldnt care less
"Maybe you're taking this a little bit too seriously. I'll talk to you later."

Throw it back on her, because it's not YOUR fault anyways. It's her fault for getting upset when you're not even official.
If she thinks you're the kind of guy that would do that, and you don't want the girl you choose to think that, just next her. Maybe she'll change her mind.
If not, oh well. You'll find a better girl.
 

Who Dares Win

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Agree and amplify, then when she is angry or smiling change topic.


-Sure I do, do you expect them to pay me just for dancing?
-I do because they love me for my personality and not just my body
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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