“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

What to do when she accuses you of sleeping around

dudewut

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2011
Messages
230
Reaction score
2
-banging this girl
-we are not official (I beat around the bush when she brings it up)
-She asked me to go out tomorrow night, I really cant because legit busy (its a friggin weekday ffs...tsk tsk)
-She said she is hurt about the rejection and excuses and then accused me that I maybe sleeping with another girl


How must one handle this?

Obligatory: PROJECTION! I really couldnt care less
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

dudewut

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2011
Messages
230
Reaction score
2
BUMP

I guess she thinks we are exclusive I don't wanna correct her otherwise she might go "oh, if we are not together then maybe we should stop seeing each other" or other gay sh!t women say

What do?
 

Sneevox

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
314
Reaction score
14
Location
The Summerlands
dudewut said:
-banging this girl
-we are not official (I beat around the bush when she brings it up)
-She asked me to go out tomorrow night, I really cant because legit busy (its a friggin weekday ffs...tsk tsk)
-She said she is hurt about the rejection and excuses and then accused me that I maybe sleeping with another girl


How must one handle this?

Obligatory: PROJECTION! I really couldnt care less
"Maybe you're taking this a little bit too seriously. I'll talk to you later."

Throw it back on her, because it's not YOUR fault anyways. It's her fault for getting upset when you're not even official.
If she thinks you're the kind of guy that would do that, and you don't want the girl you choose to think that, just next her. Maybe she'll change her mind.
If not, oh well. You'll find a better girl.
 

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,423
Reaction score
5,795
Agree and amplify, then when she is angry or smiling change topic.


-Sure I do, do you expect them to pay me just for dancing?
-I do because they love me for my personality and not just my body
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top