What to Do When a Plate Starts Spinning You or Playing Games?

[Nu Vision]

So say you going out with 2-3 girls. One of these girls you like more than the rest and have even thought about LTR with her. She starts to go cold on you. Dates get canceled sometimes last minute. Her attention is drifting. Her mind is some here else (another guy) most likely.

What's the move here? Dump her? Or just be cool and get it when she goes to the date. When she cancels getting emotional is not the right response of course but is setting ultimatum a right response?

Would you be ok being a plates plan B if you got other girls you banging but she she one you really like?

I made a mistake with a girl. Instead of acting cool I kind of disclosed how much I liked her and then it was all over. Should I have just said ok hit me up whenever and leave it at that. Let her come to me whenever she wanted to. My ego got in the way because I felt like I was being played.

 

[skinnyguy]

You claim to be spinning plates yet you are worried about how this girl is acting with you?

If you actually care what she thinks, you are just a p*ssy. She's a sex toy not your wife.

 

[Tictac]

So say you going out with 2-3 girls.

I made a mistake with a girl. Instead of acting cool I kind of disclosed how much I liked her and then it was all over. Should I have just said ok hit me up whenever and leave it at that. Let her come to me whenever she wanted to. My ego got in the way because I felt like I was being played.

So now you are going out with 1-2 girls instead of 2-3 girls.

You should wince when you read your own last paragraph.

Your ego did get in the way. If you think that's any excuse at all, you haven't a clue.

 

[Maximus Rex]

That must be some extraordinary p*ssy for you to be worried about what the f*ck a plate is doing. Rex is curious to see who has you so p*ssy whipped. Post a picture of you and her.

 

[Nu Vision]

Lesson learned.

I realize how stupid I acted with this girl.

Have other girls so it's not as bad as in the past.

 

[Nu Vision]

Rex,

Won't be posting pics.

I'm new to this. Have learned a lot here but as you can see still have ways to go.

 

[Poon King]

Listen.. NEVER chase after a woman's interest level.

If she loses interest then say NEXT and keep it moving. Never try to raise a woman's interest level. Such behavior is not only beta, but it also demonstrates you don't believe you are worthy. Which is pathetic.

 

[Nu Vision]

Listen.. NEVER chase after a woman's interest level.

If she loses interest then say NEXT and keep it moving. Never try to raise a woman's interest level. Such behavior is not only beta, but it also demonstrates you don't believe you are worthy. Which is pathetic.

I get it Poon. I haven't really chased her. Things with her have stalled. The other two girls remain in play. One of them I'm losing interest in though. She's like a 6. I got with her because I felt like I needed to get going with practicing what I've learned in dating and relationships. Her Interest level is very high. And as it happens she's the one I like the least. The one whose interest has lowered I like the most. But won't chase. Will find someone as good looking or better looking than her who shows interest and I'll be better positioned to keep her interstate high with the lessons I keep learning.

Have any of you guys had a rotation of like 4-5 girls all with high interest? How do you deal with the constant testing/calling? This one girl who is very into me texts me all the freaking time.

 

[Trump]

So say you going out with 2-3 girls. One of these girls you like more than the rest and have even thought about LTR with her. She starts to go cold on you. Dates get canceled sometimes last minute. Her attention is drifting. Her mind is some here else (another guy) most likely.

What's the move here? Dump her?

Come on bro, how do you go out with 3 hot girls and then think like this?

"Hello Cindy, I feel like you are not showing me enough attention and are too into this new guy. My ego can't handle such a situation therefore Im going to dump you."

Or just be cool and get it when she goes to the date. When she cancels getting emotional is not the right response of course but is setting ultimatum a right response?

Ultimatum with a girl? Why don't you improve your product so she really wants it, instead of begging her to take it?

Would you be ok being a plates plan B if you got other girls you banging but she she one you really like?

I made a mistake with a girl. Instead of acting cool I kind of disclosed how much I liked her and then it was all over.

NEVER NEVER NEVER tell a girl how much you like them, she will USE IT AGAINST YOU FOR PROFIT. Stop the Disney movies and start watching James Bond.

 

[Nu Vision]

Got It Trump. Improve the product so she can't get enough of it and it she decides to go elsewhere then fvck her. No chasing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Got It Trump. Improve the product so she can't get enough of it and it she decides to go elsewhere then fvck her. No chasing.

I agree with this viewpoint. Women CHOOSE. It's up to us to be aware we are chose.

 

[jcjetty]

Do we as men or do we not also influence her choice by being in control of ourselves and our environment! When I walk into a bar I walk in like I own the place! Have a couple buddies dress to the nines and walk in like your gods gift to this planet! Heads will turn! The women will want you and the men will want to be you!