"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What to do when a girl keeps on questioning you about your salary?

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There is one kind of woman who wants to know your salary on the first date: a Gold Digger.

There is NO other reason on a first date for her to ask you this than to see if you can afford her some toys.

You're responce to this question doesn't matter, because there will be no second date.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anytime you find yourself in an uncomfortable position, play it off with a joke. Most people can take the hint, and she'll be impressed with your rapier wit.

With a suave smile and a glimmer in the eye," Well, let's just say I'll have no trouble affording this dinner."

It seems quite confident if you're at chez Pierre, and down right hilarious if you're at Taco Bell. :D

-CyranoDeBergerac
 
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Originally posted by Doppel
Originally posted by doctoroxygen
Her: "How much money do you make?"

You (overly horrified expression): "How much do you weigh?"


LOL. Thread winner.
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Umm.. no it's not. InLaws baby! ;)
 
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