"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to do when a girl asks...

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Parsifal

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Hi guys, I have a question for you...
I've been reading the articles on this site for a couple of months now, and it seems to pay off. I'm becoming more and more self-confident and and I feel more at ease when talking to girls. But there's one thing I still don't get, and I need your advice on this one.

There is a point where most girls (who show interest in me) ask: 'What do you look for in a girl?' or 'What does your ideal woman look like?'

I honestly don't know what to tell them. Usually I say something like: 'self-confident, nice, interesting'. I try to keep it a bit vague, because I know it's a test - but I don't know if this is a good response.
I never give a description which matches the girl's profile, because that'd be way too obvious -more like sucking up- and I don't think it's good to come off needy.

How would you tackle this situation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hound_of_Love

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How would you tackle this situation?
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I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
 
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Re: Re: What to do when a girl asks...

Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
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:crackup: not all women have ADD !
 
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rdxshooter

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Black Italian

Whats yor deal, you half black, half Italiano or what?


Parsifal, I am guessn by that question you are a white boy, you fools crack me up.

Here is how a brotha would answer this questions

'What do you look for in a girl?' I don't, women look for me


'What does your ideal woman look like?' Describe the exact opposite of her. She a cute skinny brunette? Tell her you like blondes with an ass like a sista. She a nice thick blue eyed blonde, tell her you like petite asains.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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'Wouldn't you like to know' ;)

'Thats a pretty cheap way to try to get in my pants'
 
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