"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to do when a girl asks...

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Parsifal

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Hi guys, I have a question for you...
I've been reading the articles on this site for a couple of months now, and it seems to pay off. I'm becoming more and more self-confident and and I feel more at ease when talking to girls. But there's one thing I still don't get, and I need your advice on this one.

There is a point where most girls (who show interest in me) ask: 'What do you look for in a girl?' or 'What does your ideal woman look like?'

I honestly don't know what to tell them. Usually I say something like: 'self-confident, nice, interesting'. I try to keep it a bit vague, because I know it's a test - but I don't know if this is a good response.
I never give a description which matches the girl's profile, because that'd be way too obvious -more like sucking up- and I don't think it's good to come off needy.

How would you tackle this situation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hound_of_Love

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How would you tackle this situation?
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I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
 
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Re: Re: What to do when a girl asks...

Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
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:crackup: not all women have ADD !
 
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Black Italian

Whats yor deal, you half black, half Italiano or what?


Parsifal, I am guessn by that question you are a white boy, you fools crack me up.

Here is how a brotha would answer this questions

'What do you look for in a girl?' I don't, women look for me


'What does your ideal woman look like?' Describe the exact opposite of her. She a cute skinny brunette? Tell her you like blondes with an ass like a sista. She a nice thick blue eyed blonde, tell her you like petite asains.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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'Wouldn't you like to know' ;)

'Thats a pretty cheap way to try to get in my pants'
 
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