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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to do when a girl asks...

Parsifal

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Hi guys, I have a question for you...
I've been reading the articles on this site for a couple of months now, and it seems to pay off. I'm becoming more and more self-confident and and I feel more at ease when talking to girls. But there's one thing I still don't get, and I need your advice on this one.

There is a point where most girls (who show interest in me) ask: 'What do you look for in a girl?' or 'What does your ideal woman look like?'

I honestly don't know what to tell them. Usually I say something like: 'self-confident, nice, interesting'. I try to keep it a bit vague, because I know it's a test - but I don't know if this is a good response.
I never give a description which matches the girl's profile, because that'd be way too obvious -more like sucking up- and I don't think it's good to come off needy.

How would you tackle this situation?
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hound_of_Love

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How would you tackle this situation?
I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
 

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Re: Re: What to do when a girl asks...

Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
:crackup: not all women have ADD !
 

rdxshooter

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Black Italian

Whats yor deal, you half black, half Italiano or what?


Parsifal, I am guessn by that question you are a white boy, you fools crack me up.

Here is how a brotha would answer this questions

'What do you look for in a girl?' I don't, women look for me


'What does your ideal woman look like?' Describe the exact opposite of her. She a cute skinny brunette? Tell her you like blondes with an ass like a sista. She a nice thick blue eyed blonde, tell her you like petite asains.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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'Wouldn't you like to know' ;)

'Thats a pretty cheap way to try to get in my pants'
 
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