"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What to do when a girl asks...

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Hi guys, I have a question for you...
I've been reading the articles on this site for a couple of months now, and it seems to pay off. I'm becoming more and more self-confident and and I feel more at ease when talking to girls. But there's one thing I still don't get, and I need your advice on this one.

There is a point where most girls (who show interest in me) ask: 'What do you look for in a girl?' or 'What does your ideal woman look like?'

I honestly don't know what to tell them. Usually I say something like: 'self-confident, nice, interesting'. I try to keep it a bit vague, because I know it's a test - but I don't know if this is a good response.
I never give a description which matches the girl's profile, because that'd be way too obvious -more like sucking up- and I don't think it's good to come off needy.

How would you tackle this situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hound_of_Love

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How would you tackle this situation?
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I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
 
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Re: Re: What to do when a girl asks...

Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
I'd look over her shoulder, assume an expression of horror and shout, "Oh my God! Look out! Thousands of Zulus!"

Hopefully she'll have forgotten the question after that.
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:crackup: not all women have ADD !
 
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Black Italian

Whats yor deal, you half black, half Italiano or what?


Parsifal, I am guessn by that question you are a white boy, you fools crack me up.

Here is how a brotha would answer this questions

'What do you look for in a girl?' I don't, women look for me


'What does your ideal woman look like?' Describe the exact opposite of her. She a cute skinny brunette? Tell her you like blondes with an ass like a sista. She a nice thick blue eyed blonde, tell her you like petite asains.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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'Wouldn't you like to know' ;)

'Thats a pretty cheap way to try to get in my pants'
 
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