"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what to do when a chick says this

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what do u do or say to turn this around...


sheryl says:
DONT FUKKIN TEXT ME AGAIN I HATE YO YOUR FUKKIN GUTS U AINT SHYT I NEVA WANNA B WIT U OR HEAR U OR C U AGAIN
Daniel-Aquainia Marie Wynn says:
what was dat 4?
sheryl says:
CUZ U A DIRTY MOTHA FUKKER
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol, you're dealing with what we DJ's call B!tches.

You could say, " It takes a dirty motha fukker to know one "

or, you could say, " you never want to be with me? haha! who said I wanted to 'be' with you? Why would you deserve the time of day to have a chance?."
 
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lol i said da second one and she said this...


sheryl says:
Oh so u dont want to b wit me why the **** u textin me

so i said

Daniel-Aquainia Marie Wynn says:
erm i though i could talk to friends...
 
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I wouldn't have said it like that.....I would have said, "calm your a$$ down. I thought we could be friends. But, obviously you think every guy that talks to you wants to date you, so that's your problem, later."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol read this...

lol i said dem things to her and she said whateva man and i said whateva man u don't say whateva man to me so ***** u need to clam down... and she goes did u just call me a ***** and i go yea i sure did and she goes ight hold on... and she called me and said she wants to fight me tomarrow at school and her brother is on da way ova tonite to fight me.. and i go okay and she hung up and i texted her and said i anit scared of u guys and she called back and my mom told her off...
 
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Do what you got to do...I told you she was a b!tch.....:crackup:

Just try to stay away from her....if she tries anything, just grab her arm and hold them, until she gives up.....
 
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i don't want her back i just saw her ture side lol she said im ****ing ugly but i know im not cuz i got like 4 girls after me now and 2 of them are her friends lol....
 
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Tell her that, in a ****y and funny way.....don't mention that 2 of them are her friends though.

"Me, ugly? just goes to show what bad taste you have in men. If this were a life or death decision, you would have just died." (something like that).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It hurts my brain just reading snippets of those replies.

Edit: Yes, her replies. You're cool in my books. :D
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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didnt i tell you to expect disappointment from her in your last thread?
this is the little momma whose aunt is raising the baby and she has hid it from everyone right?
 
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yea thats her but she has da baby now and she needs a real man i just gotta find a way to show dat even tho show droped on me last saturday she had a bf idk anymore...
 
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uh, i say just dont talk to her. she aint worth your time, man. go find someone else or something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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