I'm 19. No girlfriend. All my roommates are gone. All my good friends are out of town for the night. I'm sitting in bed on my computer at 10:00pm and I haven't "gone out" in about a month. Where would be a good place to go tonight?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What to do tonight?
- Thread starter SamMalone
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
A porn site.... just kidding 
Really, try going to a nice little club or bar and trying to meet some new people; girls and guys, who knows you may find a really good guy friend there or a potential girlfriend.
What do you have to lose?
Really, try going to a nice little club or bar and trying to meet some new people; girls and guys, who knows you may find a really good guy friend there or a potential girlfriend. What do you have to lose?
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Any under 21 clubs? I dont know how far Dallas is from wherever you live but you should probably go out there anyway.