I'm 19. No girlfriend. All my roommates are gone. All my good friends are out of town for the night. I'm sitting in bed on my computer at 10:00pm and I haven't "gone out" in about a month. Where would be a good place to go tonight?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What to do tonight?
- Thread starter SamMalone
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
A porn site.... just kidding 
Really, try going to a nice little club or bar and trying to meet some new people; girls and guys, who knows you may find a really good guy friend there or a potential girlfriend.
What do you have to lose?
Really, try going to a nice little club or bar and trying to meet some new people; girls and guys, who knows you may find a really good guy friend there or a potential girlfriend. What do you have to lose?
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Any under 21 clubs? I dont know how far Dallas is from wherever you live but you should probably go out there anyway.