I'm 19. No girlfriend. All my roommates are gone. All my good friends are out of town for the night. I'm sitting in bed on my computer at 10:00pm and I haven't "gone out" in about a month. Where would be a good place to go tonight?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What to do tonight?
- Thread starter SamMalone
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
A porn site.... just kidding 
Really, try going to a nice little club or bar and trying to meet some new people; girls and guys, who knows you may find a really good guy friend there or a potential girlfriend.
What do you have to lose?
Really, try going to a nice little club or bar and trying to meet some new people; girls and guys, who knows you may find a really good guy friend there or a potential girlfriend. What do you have to lose?
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Any under 21 clubs? I dont know how far Dallas is from wherever you live but you should probably go out there anyway.