"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DanjoZ

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Hello fellow DJs. I really want you advice/opinion in an issue.

You see, I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks. Everything is great. I am a DJ afterall so I know how to play my cards right. I'm the better catch and I'm sure she is the first to say it.

BUT..

I don't know what to do now. What is the next step? I'm pretty confused and I need your advice =)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hey, i'M not really a don juan but if you want the masters so help you out, you should describe what you mean a little bit more in detail. ie: what do you expect from the relationship, how are things going right now...
 

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First of all. Couldn't agree with you more. You shouldn't plan "next step". Just keep doin what you are doin. Don't think to much. Just keep hitting those punches!


Allright! Here's some more info..

I'm 22 and she's 20. We've been dating for about 8 weeks tho we have been very intrusive I've meet no bad feelings such "to used to her" and stuff I usually feel. I just want to keep the fire hot you know. Do new stuff and such.

So what do you think? Just keep on doin what I've been doin. And by that I mean Dating and such things.
 

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Originally posted by DanjoZ
First of all. Couldn't agree with you more. You shouldn't plan "next step". Just keep doin what you are doin. Don't think to much. Just keep hitting those punches!


Allright! Here's some more info..

I'm 22 and she's 20. We've been dating for about 8 weeks tho we have been very intrusive I've meet no bad feelings such "to used to her" and stuff I usually feel. I just want to keep the fire hot you know. Do new stuff and such.

So what do you think? Just keep on doin what I've been doin. And by that I mean Dating and such things.
What do you do to keep "the fire hot" in your OWN life, girl aside?
 

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Very true! Actually I've been thinking of her waaaays to much lately.

I've been break dancin alot in my days. And I have toughts hit the dance floor again, but right now I've got nothing in particular "keeping the fire hot" in my own life actually.

Ofcuz that's not why I'm dating the girl. But yeah.. I'll try not making the relationship take too much space.

What are your suggestions then? How much time shall I spend on the girl approximatley?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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