"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DanjoZ

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Hello fellow DJs. I really want you advice/opinion in an issue.

You see, I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks. Everything is great. I am a DJ afterall so I know how to play my cards right. I'm the better catch and I'm sure she is the first to say it.

BUT..

I don't know what to do now. What is the next step? I'm pretty confused and I need your advice =)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hey, i'M not really a don juan but if you want the masters so help you out, you should describe what you mean a little bit more in detail. ie: what do you expect from the relationship, how are things going right now...
 

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First of all. Couldn't agree with you more. You shouldn't plan "next step". Just keep doin what you are doin. Don't think to much. Just keep hitting those punches!


Allright! Here's some more info..

I'm 22 and she's 20. We've been dating for about 8 weeks tho we have been very intrusive I've meet no bad feelings such "to used to her" and stuff I usually feel. I just want to keep the fire hot you know. Do new stuff and such.

So what do you think? Just keep on doin what I've been doin. And by that I mean Dating and such things.
 

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Originally posted by DanjoZ
First of all. Couldn't agree with you more. You shouldn't plan "next step". Just keep doin what you are doin. Don't think to much. Just keep hitting those punches!


Allright! Here's some more info..

I'm 22 and she's 20. We've been dating for about 8 weeks tho we have been very intrusive I've meet no bad feelings such "to used to her" and stuff I usually feel. I just want to keep the fire hot you know. Do new stuff and such.

So what do you think? Just keep on doin what I've been doin. And by that I mean Dating and such things.
What do you do to keep "the fire hot" in your OWN life, girl aside?
 

DanjoZ

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Very true! Actually I've been thinking of her waaaays to much lately.

I've been break dancin alot in my days. And I have toughts hit the dance floor again, but right now I've got nothing in particular "keeping the fire hot" in my own life actually.

Ofcuz that's not why I'm dating the girl. But yeah.. I'll try not making the relationship take too much space.

What are your suggestions then? How much time shall I spend on the girl approximatley?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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