"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DanjoZ

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Hello fellow DJs. I really want you advice/opinion in an issue.

You see, I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks. Everything is great. I am a DJ afterall so I know how to play my cards right. I'm the better catch and I'm sure she is the first to say it.

BUT..

I don't know what to do now. What is the next step? I'm pretty confused and I need your advice =)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey, i'M not really a don juan but if you want the masters so help you out, you should describe what you mean a little bit more in detail. ie: what do you expect from the relationship, how are things going right now...
 

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First of all. Couldn't agree with you more. You shouldn't plan "next step". Just keep doin what you are doin. Don't think to much. Just keep hitting those punches!


Allright! Here's some more info..

I'm 22 and she's 20. We've been dating for about 8 weeks tho we have been very intrusive I've meet no bad feelings such "to used to her" and stuff I usually feel. I just want to keep the fire hot you know. Do new stuff and such.

So what do you think? Just keep on doin what I've been doin. And by that I mean Dating and such things.
 

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Originally posted by DanjoZ
First of all. Couldn't agree with you more. You shouldn't plan "next step". Just keep doin what you are doin. Don't think to much. Just keep hitting those punches!


Allright! Here's some more info..

I'm 22 and she's 20. We've been dating for about 8 weeks tho we have been very intrusive I've meet no bad feelings such "to used to her" and stuff I usually feel. I just want to keep the fire hot you know. Do new stuff and such.

So what do you think? Just keep on doin what I've been doin. And by that I mean Dating and such things.
What do you do to keep "the fire hot" in your OWN life, girl aside?
 

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Very true! Actually I've been thinking of her waaaays to much lately.

I've been break dancin alot in my days. And I have toughts hit the dance floor again, but right now I've got nothing in particular "keeping the fire hot" in my own life actually.

Ofcuz that's not why I'm dating the girl. But yeah.. I'll try not making the relationship take too much space.

What are your suggestions then? How much time shall I spend on the girl approximatley?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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