"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What To Do Next?

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[Background Info]

I randomly found a girl on facebook that I thought was pretty.

We talked on facebook.

Hung out w/ her last week. Dinner & Movie.

[The Scoop]

I waited and waited for the perfect girl to come, and I finally found her!~

Usually i switch from girl to girl, but i'm sick of doing that now. I kinda want to stay with one girl i really like.

I think she is beauutiful and I really like her ALOT. She is someone I would want as my girlfriend. Of course, I have to hang out with her more though.

I dated ALOT of girls so I know what's out there. This girl is everything I always dreamed of. Beautiful, smart, nice, not a club *****, and has breaks at college the same times that I do.

[Next Move?]

What should my next move be?

A) Get lunch with her during one of our breaks in between classes AND ask her to hang out this weekend.

B) Get lunch with her during one of our breaks in between classes AND DONT ask her to hang out this weekend.

C) Forget lunch, only ask her to hang out this weekend.

D) Don't ask her for lunch, and don't ask her to hang out. Wait a whole week without doing anything.

*Note: I think that she usually gets lunch with her girlfriend during her break. Thats not a problem if her friend is there too. i dont care.

[My Thoughts]

I'm thinking I go for choice A. What do you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do what feels right...

Really.

I personally don't like movie dates tho, but it's worked for you... remember that, keep it to what you like to do, and then the odd time you can say 'ok, how about this time we do what you want.' and it'll be congruent.
 
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My professional opinion is that you are exhibiting the early symptoms of oneitis. I prescribe a multivitamin as well as a healthy dose of flirtation with other girls.

And I'd go with options B or D. Choice A is the worst of the four.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i've already dated tons of girls. i dont like them as much as her
 
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Do something you want to do, not what you think she 'might' like to do....

For example, I am going to head to xxxx, you can tag along if you want'
 
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Also your attitude for this girl is awful, your already putting her WAY too high
 
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