"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What To Do Next?

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[Background Info]

I randomly found a girl on facebook that I thought was pretty.

We talked on facebook.

Hung out w/ her last week. Dinner & Movie.

[The Scoop]

I waited and waited for the perfect girl to come, and I finally found her!~

Usually i switch from girl to girl, but i'm sick of doing that now. I kinda want to stay with one girl i really like.

I think she is beauutiful and I really like her ALOT. She is someone I would want as my girlfriend. Of course, I have to hang out with her more though.

I dated ALOT of girls so I know what's out there. This girl is everything I always dreamed of. Beautiful, smart, nice, not a club *****, and has breaks at college the same times that I do.

[Next Move?]

What should my next move be?

A) Get lunch with her during one of our breaks in between classes AND ask her to hang out this weekend.

B) Get lunch with her during one of our breaks in between classes AND DONT ask her to hang out this weekend.

C) Forget lunch, only ask her to hang out this weekend.

D) Don't ask her for lunch, and don't ask her to hang out. Wait a whole week without doing anything.

*Note: I think that she usually gets lunch with her girlfriend during her break. Thats not a problem if her friend is there too. i dont care.

[My Thoughts]

I'm thinking I go for choice A. What do you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do what feels right...

Really.

I personally don't like movie dates tho, but it's worked for you... remember that, keep it to what you like to do, and then the odd time you can say 'ok, how about this time we do what you want.' and it'll be congruent.
 
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My professional opinion is that you are exhibiting the early symptoms of oneitis. I prescribe a multivitamin as well as a healthy dose of flirtation with other girls.

And I'd go with options B or D. Choice A is the worst of the four.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i've already dated tons of girls. i dont like them as much as her
 
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Do something you want to do, not what you think she 'might' like to do....

For example, I am going to head to xxxx, you can tag along if you want'
 
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Also your attitude for this girl is awful, your already putting her WAY too high
 
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