What To Do Next?

[CORVETTE06]

[Background Info]

I randomly found a girl on facebook that I thought was pretty.

We talked on facebook.

Hung out w/ her last week. Dinner & Movie.

[The Scoop]

I waited and waited for the perfect girl to come, and I finally found her!~

Usually i switch from girl to girl, but i'm sick of doing that now. I kinda want to stay with one girl i really like.

I think she is beauutiful and I really like her ALOT. She is someone I would want as my girlfriend. Of course, I have to hang out with her more though.

I dated ALOT of girls so I know what's out there. This girl is everything I always dreamed of. Beautiful, smart, nice, not a club *****, and has breaks at college the same times that I do.

[Next Move?]

What should my next move be?

A) Get lunch with her during one of our breaks in between classes AND ask her to hang out this weekend.

B) Get lunch with her during one of our breaks in between classes AND DONT ask her to hang out this weekend.

C) Forget lunch, only ask her to hang out this weekend.

D) Don't ask her for lunch, and don't ask her to hang out. Wait a whole week without doing anything.

*Note: I think that she usually gets lunch with her girlfriend during her break. Thats not a problem if her friend is there too. i dont care.

[My Thoughts]

I'm thinking I go for choice A. What do you think?

 

[So pimp its scary]

Do what feels right...

Really.

I personally don't like movie dates tho, but it's worked for you... remember that, keep it to what you like to do, and then the odd time you can say 'ok, how about this time we do what you want.' and it'll be congruent.

 

[Obsidian]

My professional opinion is that you are exhibiting the early symptoms of oneitis. I prescribe a multivitamin as well as a healthy dose of flirtation with other girls.

And I'd go with options B or D. Choice A is the worst of the four.

 

[CORVETTE06]

ok... any other opinions???

 

[Sir Juanalot]

Find 3 other girls, date them, then look at this girl again more objectively.

 

[CORVETTE06]

i've already dated tons of girls. i dont like them as much as her

 

[Modro]

Do something you want to do, not what you think she 'might' like to do....

For example, I am going to head to xxxx, you can tag along if you want'

 

[Modro]

Also your attitude for this girl is awful, your already putting her WAY too high