Ok it's like this. My friend and I started liking a girl and we both went for her. I was really nice and sweet to the girl, which I shouldn't have done. My friend, on the other hand, wasn't as needy as I was and naturally showed his bad side. And of course, any1 would be able to predict the result, the girl likes my friend. However being the bad guy as he was, he said that he would break up with the girl shortly and this girl to me is like someone I don't wanna lose. So do you think after they break up, will I have any chance w/ her if I start being a bad guy?? Thanks 4 ur answer in advance.
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What to do in this sitation??
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- Start date
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Its not that he was a "bad boy". You just seemed needy. he was indifferent.
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No no that's not what I meant, of course after they break up she would be available for everyone. What I want to know is should I try to be the bad guy to get her then? Because before I was really sweet and nice to her already and that probably created the impression that I'm a nice guy.
IF your asking to be the bad guy then I dont think it would work, I think once she breaks up with your friend she will rush to you to fulfill her needs of tamponism (So what it's not a word wanna fight about it) ...I dont think you will be able to get with her since SHE already picked someone over you but hey go ahead just remember to not be her tampon...good luck.
Real question is, why are you still hung up on this ONE girl even after your buddy won her over?
Waste of time man. Even if she does go out with you, her eyes will always be scanning for another guy, a better branch to swing to, like the twig you are. You're just temporary if it ever happens.
Waste of time man. Even if she does go out with you, her eyes will always be scanning for another guy, a better branch to swing to, like the twig you are. You're just temporary if it ever happens.
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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Tamponism????j0n024 said:
I like that.