Ok it's like this. My friend and I started liking a girl and we both went for her. I was really nice and sweet to the girl, which I shouldn't have done. My friend, on the other hand, wasn't as needy as I was and naturally showed his bad side. And of course, any1 would be able to predict the result, the girl likes my friend. However being the bad guy as he was, he said that he would break up with the girl shortly and this girl to me is like someone I don't wanna lose. So do you think after they break up, will I have any chance w/ her if I start being a bad guy?? Thanks 4 ur answer in advance.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What to do in this sitation??
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
Its not that he was a "bad boy". You just seemed needy. he was indifferent.
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
I imagine your a teenager. no i hope you are
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
No no that's not what I meant, of course after they break up she would be available for everyone. What I want to know is should I try to be the bad guy to get her then? Because before I was really sweet and nice to her already and that probably created the impression that I'm a nice guy.
IF your asking to be the bad guy then I dont think it would work, I think once she breaks up with your friend she will rush to you to fulfill her needs of tamponism (So what it's not a word wanna fight about it) ...I dont think you will be able to get with her since SHE already picked someone over you but hey go ahead just remember to not be her tampon...good luck.
Real question is, why are you still hung up on this ONE girl even after your buddy won her over?
Waste of time man. Even if she does go out with you, her eyes will always be scanning for another guy, a better branch to swing to, like the twig you are. You're just temporary if it ever happens.
Waste of time man. Even if she does go out with you, her eyes will always be scanning for another guy, a better branch to swing to, like the twig you are. You're just temporary if it ever happens.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Tamponism????j0n024 said:
I like that.