"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what to do in a gap year?

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What's up SS, so the time as arrived where I am finally interviewing for medical schools and I am in my official gap year. So far, everything is looking great. However, I find that without any type of schooling, I find myself bored throughout the day.

I work 30-40 hours a week right now at my current job, and train 2 hours a day for powerlifting, and I am at a goal to read 1 book a week, but I feel like this is not enough.

My question is, if you had this time, what would you do? What should I get in to? I really want to find one thing to do and get quite good at it. Suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you seriously asking others how you should spend your freetime? Don't you have any hobbies or interests to fill your time with?

Just to give you some food for thougth. Learn a language, craft something, learn a sport discipline, do dancing, travel around...
 

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If you're inclined to learn something involving any kind of software, take a look at lynda.com.

They have short (3-8) minute tutorials on TONS of stuff. You can spend an hour a day over the next year becoming an expert in plenty of different software based skills.

On just photoshop alone they've hundreds of courses, each broken down into 5 minute chunks.
 

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Get your motorcycle license and join the motorcycle club, online and in real life.... It will get you friends too.

My friends and myself are getting our licenses right now, I already have 2 friends who got their licenses 6 years ago and joined the online community of motorcycle... sometimes they group up to 30 peoples and do rides for hours
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Volunteer for an animal welfare charity. It will be all women, most of them rich girls, easy pvssy if you play it right.
I volunteer for the red cross right now, will look into an animal welfare charity around me, there is bound to be a few.
 

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If you're inclined to learn something involving any kind of software, take a look at lynda.com.

They have short (3-8) minute tutorials on TONS of stuff. You can spend an hour a day over the next year becoming an expert in plenty of different software based skills.

On just photoshop alone they've hundreds of courses, each broken down into 5 minute chunks.
I may look into it, I think I am going to find something that will get me outside more. Looking into starting up bmx riding again.
 
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