"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what to do in a gap year?

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What's up SS, so the time as arrived where I am finally interviewing for medical schools and I am in my official gap year. So far, everything is looking great. However, I find that without any type of schooling, I find myself bored throughout the day.

I work 30-40 hours a week right now at my current job, and train 2 hours a day for powerlifting, and I am at a goal to read 1 book a week, but I feel like this is not enough.

My question is, if you had this time, what would you do? What should I get in to? I really want to find one thing to do and get quite good at it. Suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you seriously asking others how you should spend your freetime? Don't you have any hobbies or interests to fill your time with?

Just to give you some food for thougth. Learn a language, craft something, learn a sport discipline, do dancing, travel around...
 

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If you're inclined to learn something involving any kind of software, take a look at lynda.com.

They have short (3-8) minute tutorials on TONS of stuff. You can spend an hour a day over the next year becoming an expert in plenty of different software based skills.

On just photoshop alone they've hundreds of courses, each broken down into 5 minute chunks.
 

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Get your motorcycle license and join the motorcycle club, online and in real life.... It will get you friends too.

My friends and myself are getting our licenses right now, I already have 2 friends who got their licenses 6 years ago and joined the online community of motorcycle... sometimes they group up to 30 peoples and do rides for hours
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Volunteer for an animal welfare charity. It will be all women, most of them rich girls, easy pvssy if you play it right.
I volunteer for the red cross right now, will look into an animal welfare charity around me, there is bound to be a few.
 

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If you're inclined to learn something involving any kind of software, take a look at lynda.com.

They have short (3-8) minute tutorials on TONS of stuff. You can spend an hour a day over the next year becoming an expert in plenty of different software based skills.

On just photoshop alone they've hundreds of courses, each broken down into 5 minute chunks.
I may look into it, I think I am going to find something that will get me outside more. Looking into starting up bmx riding again.
 
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