Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what to do in a gap year?

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What's up SS, so the time as arrived where I am finally interviewing for medical schools and I am in my official gap year. So far, everything is looking great. However, I find that without any type of schooling, I find myself bored throughout the day.

I work 30-40 hours a week right now at my current job, and train 2 hours a day for powerlifting, and I am at a goal to read 1 book a week, but I feel like this is not enough.

My question is, if you had this time, what would you do? What should I get in to? I really want to find one thing to do and get quite good at it. Suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you seriously asking others how you should spend your freetime? Don't you have any hobbies or interests to fill your time with?

Just to give you some food for thougth. Learn a language, craft something, learn a sport discipline, do dancing, travel around...
 

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If you're inclined to learn something involving any kind of software, take a look at lynda.com.

They have short (3-8) minute tutorials on TONS of stuff. You can spend an hour a day over the next year becoming an expert in plenty of different software based skills.

On just photoshop alone they've hundreds of courses, each broken down into 5 minute chunks.
 

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Get your motorcycle license and join the motorcycle club, online and in real life.... It will get you friends too.

My friends and myself are getting our licenses right now, I already have 2 friends who got their licenses 6 years ago and joined the online community of motorcycle... sometimes they group up to 30 peoples and do rides for hours
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Volunteer for an animal welfare charity. It will be all women, most of them rich girls, easy pvssy if you play it right.
I volunteer for the red cross right now, will look into an animal welfare charity around me, there is bound to be a few.
 

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If you're inclined to learn something involving any kind of software, take a look at lynda.com.

They have short (3-8) minute tutorials on TONS of stuff. You can spend an hour a day over the next year becoming an expert in plenty of different software based skills.

On just photoshop alone they've hundreds of courses, each broken down into 5 minute chunks.
I may look into it, I think I am going to find something that will get me outside more. Looking into starting up bmx riding again.
 
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