"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What to do if you dont have a car?
- Thread starter qweretyuiopas
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Being a wimpy AFC is your problem.
I don't drive - but most of my pickups are in clubs and at university, where having a car is not expected, at least in the UK. Not driving can weed out very superficial chicks too.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Ghetto = Bad Place. If you stay in the ghetto then you = stuck in bad place. You have enough money to be spending on a cell phone with a cam on it. Save up as much money as you can and get the hell out of there.
my point exactly-so stop postingOriginally posted by Iamnotacrook
I don't think I'm bragging... hell, I could care less...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
One thing its not about being a wimp I just thought it mattered thats all (even though im a little wimp when it comes 2 approaching women). You just said yourself in the UK it doesnt matter as much to have a car.Originally posted by aftershock
Having a car isn't your problem.
Being a wimpy AFC is your problem.
I don't drive - but most of my pickups are in clubs and at university, where having a car is not expected, at least in the UK. Not driving can weed out very superficial chicks too.
Now you, shut up, I just F'ing said I dont have a job and no money, So how the fuc would I be able to buy a camera phone. Hey smartass think... my parents bought it for me. I cant save money if I dont have any, Einstein, and even If i did buy the phone, which i didnt, thats only a little phone thats is cheap compared to moving out of the city with no job or money. Now if you have a way i can do that w/o money please tell me, until shut up until u actually read and understand my post. Geez now im pissed for nothing, i came here for help and all i get are smartass comments that dont help at all.Originally posted by dirtyvibe
Well, if you live in a ****ing ghetto then get the **** out. Duh.
Ghetto = Bad Place. If you stay in the ghetto then you = stuck in bad place. You have enough money to be spending on a cell phone with a cam on it. Save up as much money as you can and get the hell out of there.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
wow that helps... i had no prob with u till now, oh wellOriginally posted by Iamnotacrook
Start selling drugs... and if your parents ask where you got the money, tell them you have a homosexual lover.