"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do if you dont have a car?

Freeman

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
I'm 19. I don't have a car, or a job, or my own place, I'm extremely skinny, my teeth are stained because I smoke a pack a day, and my past is EXTREMELY shady, and I don't hide anything about myself. I do not lie.

Still, I've got countless 9's and 10's to chauffer me around town, shopping malls, resturaunts, parks, and sometimes they don't even drive, either. I'm fully capable of making due with what I'm provided with.

I'll admit I'm not ugly, I do have goals and responsibilities, I do live in a nice house, I do know how to dress, I do have money to spend... but apart from that, the only thing I have going for me is my personality.

Sounds like you're bragging instead of trying to helpout--not cool
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aftershock

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Having a car isn't your problem.

Being a wimpy AFC is your problem.



I don't drive - but most of my pickups are in clubs and at university, where having a car is not expected, at least in the UK. Not driving can weed out very superficial chicks too.
 

dirtyvibe

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Well, if you live in a ****ing ghetto then get the **** out. Duh.

Ghetto = Bad Place. If you stay in the ghetto then you = stuck in bad place. You have enough money to be spending on a cell phone with a cam on it. Save up as much money as you can and get the hell out of there.
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
I don't think I'm bragging... hell, I could care less...
my point exactly-so stop posting
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by aftershock
Having a car isn't your problem.

Being a wimpy AFC is your problem.

I don't drive - but most of my pickups are in clubs and at university, where having a car is not expected, at least in the UK. Not driving can weed out very superficial chicks too.
One thing its not about being a wimp I just thought it mattered thats all (even though im a little wimp when it comes 2 approaching women). You just said yourself in the UK it doesnt matter as much to have a car.

Originally posted by dirtyvibe
Well, if you live in a ****ing ghetto then get the **** out. Duh.

Ghetto = Bad Place. If you stay in the ghetto then you = stuck in bad place. You have enough money to be spending on a cell phone with a cam on it. Save up as much money as you can and get the hell out of there.
Now you, shut up, I just F'ing said I dont have a job and no money, So how the fuc would I be able to buy a camera phone. Hey smartass think... my parents bought it for me. I cant save money if I dont have any, Einstein, and even If i did buy the phone, which i didnt, thats only a little phone thats is cheap compared to moving out of the city with no job or money. Now if you have a way i can do that w/o money please tell me, until shut up until u actually read and understand my post. Geez now im pissed for nothing, i came here for help and all i get are smartass comments that dont help at all.
 

qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Start selling drugs... and if your parents ask where you got the money, tell them you have a homosexual lover.
wow that helps... i had no prob with u till now, oh well
 
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