"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What to do if you dont have a car?
- Thread starter qweretyuiopas
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Being a wimpy AFC is your problem.
I don't drive - but most of my pickups are in clubs and at university, where having a car is not expected, at least in the UK. Not driving can weed out very superficial chicks too.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Ghetto = Bad Place. If you stay in the ghetto then you = stuck in bad place. You have enough money to be spending on a cell phone with a cam on it. Save up as much money as you can and get the hell out of there.
my point exactly-so stop postingOriginally posted by Iamnotacrook
I don't think I'm bragging... hell, I could care less...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
One thing its not about being a wimp I just thought it mattered thats all (even though im a little wimp when it comes 2 approaching women). You just said yourself in the UK it doesnt matter as much to have a car.Originally posted by aftershock
Having a car isn't your problem.
Being a wimpy AFC is your problem.
I don't drive - but most of my pickups are in clubs and at university, where having a car is not expected, at least in the UK. Not driving can weed out very superficial chicks too.
Now you, shut up, I just F'ing said I dont have a job and no money, So how the fuc would I be able to buy a camera phone. Hey smartass think... my parents bought it for me. I cant save money if I dont have any, Einstein, and even If i did buy the phone, which i didnt, thats only a little phone thats is cheap compared to moving out of the city with no job or money. Now if you have a way i can do that w/o money please tell me, until shut up until u actually read and understand my post. Geez now im pissed for nothing, i came here for help and all i get are smartass comments that dont help at all.Originally posted by dirtyvibe
Well, if you live in a ****ing ghetto then get the **** out. Duh.
Ghetto = Bad Place. If you stay in the ghetto then you = stuck in bad place. You have enough money to be spending on a cell phone with a cam on it. Save up as much money as you can and get the hell out of there.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
wow that helps... i had no prob with u till now, oh wellOriginally posted by Iamnotacrook
Start selling drugs... and if your parents ask where you got the money, tell them you have a homosexual lover.