I asked a girl if she wanted to watch a movie at my place and she was doing something at the moment and said she'll call back at 11pm if she can do it. it's 11:45 right now and no call. what to do. i'll most likely ignore but is there something else i can do?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What to do if she doesn't call when she says?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
eh she called and we rescheduled for next week.
But in general though how to ask a female to come to the apt or hang out at her place? i frequently get the "i'm busy" response (considering these are college girls and i graduated and looking for a job/career)
But in general though how to ask a female to come to the apt or hang out at her place? i frequently get the "i'm busy" response (considering these are college girls and i graduated and looking for a job/career)
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I'm busy or maybe means the woman wants to say no without hurting your feelings. Essentially anything other than yes means no. Indirectly it means no, but it still means no.
Building strong atraction and rapport can prevent this and flake setups and flakes. Don't catch feelings or go emotional and you'll be fine!
Case closed. Get back in the field.
Building strong atraction and rapport can prevent this and flake setups and flakes. Don't catch feelings or go emotional and you'll be fine!
Case closed. Get back in the field.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thecurtainfalls
Senior Don Juan
One of the best "indicators of interest" I've found in my entire dating career is what I call "proximity".
A girl who is interested in you will likely go out of their way to be around you a lot. They will reschedule their lives to make time for you. All things being equal, although I don't really care to try and figure out what a girl is thinking ever, if she's around a lot or makes herself available, she's probably interested.
In other words, she wouldn't be so busy if she was truly DTF. Next.
A girl who is interested in you will likely go out of their way to be around you a lot. They will reschedule their lives to make time for you. All things being equal, although I don't really care to try and figure out what a girl is thinking ever, if she's around a lot or makes herself available, she's probably interested.
In other words, she wouldn't be so busy if she was truly DTF. Next.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
did you call a girl up for later the same day?
if you did thats way too last minute - they most likely to already have plans for a start but it also makes you look like you got nothing going on... always do it for a few days time...
if you did thats way too last minute - they most likely to already have plans for a start but it also makes you look like you got nothing going on... always do it for a few days time...