I asked a girl if she wanted to watch a movie at my place and she was doing something at the moment and said she'll call back at 11pm if she can do it. it's 11:45 right now and no call. what to do. i'll most likely ignore but is there something else i can do?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What to do if she doesn't call when she says?
- Thread starter omega05
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
eh she called and we rescheduled for next week.
But in general though how to ask a female to come to the apt or hang out at her place? i frequently get the "i'm busy" response (considering these are college girls and i graduated and looking for a job/career)
But in general though how to ask a female to come to the apt or hang out at her place? i frequently get the "i'm busy" response (considering these are college girls and i graduated and looking for a job/career)
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I'm busy or maybe means the woman wants to say no without hurting your feelings. Essentially anything other than yes means no. Indirectly it means no, but it still means no.
Building strong atraction and rapport can prevent this and flake setups and flakes. Don't catch feelings or go emotional and you'll be fine!
Case closed. Get back in the field.
Building strong atraction and rapport can prevent this and flake setups and flakes. Don't catch feelings or go emotional and you'll be fine!
Case closed. Get back in the field.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thecurtainfalls
Senior Don Juan
One of the best "indicators of interest" I've found in my entire dating career is what I call "proximity".
A girl who is interested in you will likely go out of their way to be around you a lot. They will reschedule their lives to make time for you. All things being equal, although I don't really care to try and figure out what a girl is thinking ever, if she's around a lot or makes herself available, she's probably interested.
In other words, she wouldn't be so busy if she was truly DTF. Next.
A girl who is interested in you will likely go out of their way to be around you a lot. They will reschedule their lives to make time for you. All things being equal, although I don't really care to try and figure out what a girl is thinking ever, if she's around a lot or makes herself available, she's probably interested.
In other words, she wouldn't be so busy if she was truly DTF. Next.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
did you call a girl up for later the same day?
if you did thats way too last minute - they most likely to already have plans for a start but it also makes you look like you got nothing going on... always do it for a few days time...
if you did thats way too last minute - they most likely to already have plans for a start but it also makes you look like you got nothing going on... always do it for a few days time...