Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
He does? You must know him so well... good friends, eh? If not, then you assume too much. Don't go on a blind crusade of justice.D!ck Ramsey said:mahon clearly thinks that whites are superiors and that their society doesnt have a ghetto, or underbelly.
This.DevanE said:
mahon83050 said:Just curious....Were they negroes? They tend to that when they outnumber their assailant 4 to 1 or more.
AménAce of Flames said:Stupidity knows no color.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Actually, the term ghetto came about in reference to the Judenstrasse in Germany, where the Jews (mostly white) were forced to live in extremely close proximity and extreme poverty. So yes, I have heard of white ghettos, in fact they were the FIRST ghettos.mahon83050 said:Ok *******, how many white ghetto's do you see? Not really any.....
Let's see how you feel next time you get stranded in the ghetto.
LOL great stuff!DevanE said:
I just can't see how one would logically come to that conclusion.Ace of Flames said:I don't feel mahon was being racist.
He specifically asked if they were black (I really don't care what term he used) and then elaborated as to why he was asking. He didn't say thugs, hoodlums, *******s, idiots, etc., he said "negroes". That is the definition of being a racist...mahon83050 said:Just curious....Were they negroes? They tend to that when they outnumber their assailant 4 to 1 or more.
This speaks volumes about his mentality and warped views.mahon83050 said:how many white ghetto's do you see? Not really any.....
It's all about the context in which you use these terms. I guess the way you try and lump all of this together makes it seem like some simple concept that stupid people around the world just don't get, but it would take entirely way too much time to explain why it goes much deeper then that.Ace of Flames said:People get all offended when someone of another race calls them one of those derogatory names, but they laugh and joke about it all day among their own kind. That's not right. Either everything is OK to joke about, or none of it is. If you're gonna be pissed when one guy calls you a name, and then laugh about it when another guy does, then you shouldn't say it at all. You're just causing yourself and your own people more grief.
Plus, how stupid is it to greet your friends with a word that just opens up old wounds? People astound me.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You can tell a lot from a person by what they say. I dont need to become good friends with someone to be able to tell they are ignorant. Thankfully common sense spares me that torture.Ace of Flames said:He does? You must know him so well... good friends, eh? If not, then you assume too much. Don't go on a blind crusade of justice.
We agree more than you think. I am not defending any particular race here. But when somebody makes really ignorant statements out of nowhere, they deserves to be put in their place.And that's the precise reason why I don't really like those kinds of people either, regardless of race. Its their attitude. Like they're the sh!t. Ignorance and arrogance make a nasty combination.
His question had nothing to do with the flow of the convo. The whole race thing came wayyyy out of left field. The dude has issues with prejudice that you can see in other threads.Now, when mahon first posted in this thread, he asked a simple question, albeit badly worded. You all painted him as racist, and then the flames just grew naturally.
He also should not have made that silly remark about white people not having ghettos. In my opinion, the kid got off easy. He should know better.Now, he shouldn't have said they acted the way they did because they were black. He SHOULD have said they did it because they were idiots. Stupidity knows no color.
It depends on how far you take it. I think its harmless to play off certain stereotypes because for the most part they tend to be true. We are all different and to poke fun at these distinctions is fine.ketostix said:But here's a question for you. Is it really so wrong to be racist? Is it so wrong to be sexist?
You really believe that someone who thinks white people are too good for ghettos is not racist? What are you smoking and where can I get some?you get a sense if a white person says something about a black person, people get a knee jerk reaction and a repulsion and claim racism.
Thank god for that. If mahon were in my neighborhood he would be posting from the intensive care unit where they'd be extracting someone's foot from his ass.sandman6991 said:It's an INTERNET FORUM!!
You are aware that the first ghetto's were created by Nazi germany when they put the Jewish people into what was called a ghetto.mahon83050 said:Ok *******, how many white ghetto's do you see? Not really any.....
Let's see how you feel next time you get stranded in the ghetto.
I see someone else knows true history. This mahon guy is a real loser. He is probably 15 years old with a lot of maturity to undergo before he becomes a man.MooseGod said:Actually, the term ghetto came about in reference to the Judenstrasse in Germany, where the Jews (mostly white) were forced to live in extremely close proximity and extreme poverty. So yes, I have heard of white ghettos, in fact they were the FIRST ghettos.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sorry, I've been away for a bit.They just haven't found this thread yet. It would have been closed way earlier if they knew the kind of flaming that was going on.