"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what to do after sex?

Heathcliff83

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I recently just got burned by a girl I really liked, etc. Well unfortunately I decided to say goodbye to her, she started playing games (not Game) with me after we had sex. I was like "what the ****?", and I don't put up with that ****. So I had to painfully let her go and even though she doesn't know it, but I had to, my intuition was telling me otherwise so I am listening to it. So, what do I do after sex? I waited 2 days to contact her afterwards, etc. Should I ignore her calls or texts if she tries to contact me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Snake-eyes

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Well you got what you wanted out of her.... Don’t know why shes playing games after the deal has been done. I would next her if I was in your situation. There’s plenty of them out there
 

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I agree with Snake-eyes. Move on. You said it yourself... you don't put up with it. A man doesn't have time for games. Get back to the focus being on you.
 

Heathcliff83

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Appreciate the response. It's actually kind of hard for me not to be beat up over it because I was hoping to have a relationship with her and she said she wanted to see where it goes , etc. that's the second time I been used like that by women. My game must really be off. But hey whatever, it hurts but I am moving on as I said previously.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guru1000

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Appreciate the response. It's actually kind of hard for me not to be beat up over it because I was hoping to have a relationship with her and she said she wanted to see where it goes , etc. that's the second time I been used like that by women. My game must really be off. But hey whatever, it hurts but I am moving on as I said previously.
@AJ84 Yup, men don't get used for sex too, huh?
 

guru1000

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Men can get used for sex, yeah, it’s just more common for them to be used for money and resources.
Yup. Hence man is under so social "obligation" to call women after sex too. Neither party is. To tell men otherwise was incorrect.
 

greatsnake

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If I want to pursue a relationship with a girl I just vanged, I’d just hang around with her after sex, maybe grab some food. That way she sees that you’re interested in her, not only because of z3x
 
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