"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what to do after grinding?

suaveplayer

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ok so yesterday i was grinding with this chick i knew at the high school dance. it was great, she was hot, and we had a good time. however, it was a little awkard at the end, where i made a funny comment and she laughed, and then i kinda just gave her a back pat and left to anotherpart of the floor. i guess i didnt hang around cuz i dont normally hang around with her group of friends.

i felt like it was an inadequate ending to a great dance. what should i have done?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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619joe

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I had a good session with a random girl grinding few weeks ago and the way I did it was just as the song was nearing the end,I said," Hey lemme get your number ill call you up sometime to chill" and she looked up at me and smiled and was glad I asked.Got off platform and completed the transaction and made my way else where.

What are you trying to go for?If its a number ^ its that simple just do that.She probs would have said yes.
 

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no i already know the girl. i dont need a number. im just dancing with her for the hell of it
 

Daddy The Pimp

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I would do this .

While she's dancing with her ass on my d1ck , i would grab one of her hands , turn it to face me , put her hand on my shoulder , get near her and start smelling her neck . Than you can say " YOU SMELL SO FVCKING GOOD , IM TRYING SO HARD NOT TO KISS YOU " . Watch her reaction . Than continue smelling and kiss lightly her neck . And BOOM . Make out :D .
 

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at the end of the dance or somewhere in it say something along those lines:
"Lets go get a few drinks at the bar."
but if you dont want to do more with her than i dont see the problem just go to get another girl
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tekniq

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Enryu said:
at the end of the dance or somewhere in it say something along those lines:
"Lets go get a few drinks at the bar."
but if you dont want to do more with her than i dont see the problem just go to get another girl
Why do idiots always post in the high school forum giving people advice to go out to a bar?
 

SinJester

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Esculate!!!
 

suaveplayer

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so basically escalate ifyou want her. what if you dont really want her? just leave? talk then leave?
 

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well what do u want? If all you want was a grind, then yea thats it. Hit it, and leave it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bumpppp

and also what is the purpose for grinding/dancing with a girl. i feel like its kinda akward for dance pick ups in high school, so i know i want to dance with girls, but i dont know why? (lol this sounds kinda bad)
 

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suaveplayer said:
and also what is the purpose for grinding/dancing with a girl.
What is the purpose of dancing with a girl? well if you are asking questions like that, what are you doing at school dances?

if you want the technical explanation:
grinding is easy kino. It allows you to escalate physically without any conversation.

An example from my experiences:
Girl just hopes in front of me and starts dancing, i grab her and start grinding. After a song of grinding, i turn her around and start to grind from behind. i pull her in closer and start breathing on her neck, occasionally i brush my lips up/down her neck. With my hands i move to rubbing the inside of her legs (your basically having dry sex). The key to a good "grind" is the synchronized movement of her hips and yours. After making her feel hot, i turn her around.

This is the key moment. I dance closer then i initially danced when i first started. and rest my forehead against hers. If she doesn't move her head away, shes good for kissing. Then just go for it.

If you are feeling super confident when back grinding, you can do this: when you feel its the right moment, put your head beside hers, take your finger and place it beside her chin, tilt her head towards yours and go in for the kill.

now go get some pvssy :rockon:
 
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