"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what to do after grinding?

suaveplayer

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ok so yesterday i was grinding with this chick i knew at the high school dance. it was great, she was hot, and we had a good time. however, it was a little awkard at the end, where i made a funny comment and she laughed, and then i kinda just gave her a back pat and left to anotherpart of the floor. i guess i didnt hang around cuz i dont normally hang around with her group of friends.

i felt like it was an inadequate ending to a great dance. what should i have done?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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619joe

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I had a good session with a random girl grinding few weeks ago and the way I did it was just as the song was nearing the end,I said," Hey lemme get your number ill call you up sometime to chill" and she looked up at me and smiled and was glad I asked.Got off platform and completed the transaction and made my way else where.

What are you trying to go for?If its a number ^ its that simple just do that.She probs would have said yes.
 

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no i already know the girl. i dont need a number. im just dancing with her for the hell of it
 

Daddy The Pimp

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I would do this .

While she's dancing with her ass on my d1ck , i would grab one of her hands , turn it to face me , put her hand on my shoulder , get near her and start smelling her neck . Than you can say " YOU SMELL SO FVCKING GOOD , IM TRYING SO HARD NOT TO KISS YOU " . Watch her reaction . Than continue smelling and kiss lightly her neck . And BOOM . Make out :D .
 

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at the end of the dance or somewhere in it say something along those lines:
"Lets go get a few drinks at the bar."
but if you dont want to do more with her than i dont see the problem just go to get another girl
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tekniq

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Enryu said:
at the end of the dance or somewhere in it say something along those lines:
"Lets go get a few drinks at the bar."
but if you dont want to do more with her than i dont see the problem just go to get another girl
Why do idiots always post in the high school forum giving people advice to go out to a bar?
 

SinJester

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Esculate!!!
 

suaveplayer

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so basically escalate ifyou want her. what if you dont really want her? just leave? talk then leave?
 

Evolution

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well what do u want? If all you want was a grind, then yea thats it. Hit it, and leave it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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suaveplayer

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bumpppp

and also what is the purpose for grinding/dancing with a girl. i feel like its kinda akward for dance pick ups in high school, so i know i want to dance with girls, but i dont know why? (lol this sounds kinda bad)
 

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suaveplayer said:
and also what is the purpose for grinding/dancing with a girl.
What is the purpose of dancing with a girl? well if you are asking questions like that, what are you doing at school dances?

if you want the technical explanation:
grinding is easy kino. It allows you to escalate physically without any conversation.

An example from my experiences:
Girl just hopes in front of me and starts dancing, i grab her and start grinding. After a song of grinding, i turn her around and start to grind from behind. i pull her in closer and start breathing on her neck, occasionally i brush my lips up/down her neck. With my hands i move to rubbing the inside of her legs (your basically having dry sex). The key to a good "grind" is the synchronized movement of her hips and yours. After making her feel hot, i turn her around.

This is the key moment. I dance closer then i initially danced when i first started. and rest my forehead against hers. If she doesn't move her head away, shes good for kissing. Then just go for it.

If you are feeling super confident when back grinding, you can do this: when you feel its the right moment, put your head beside hers, take your finger and place it beside her chin, tilt her head towards yours and go in for the kill.

now go get some pvssy :rockon:
 
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