"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what to do after grinding?

suaveplayer

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ok so yesterday i was grinding with this chick i knew at the high school dance. it was great, she was hot, and we had a good time. however, it was a little awkard at the end, where i made a funny comment and she laughed, and then i kinda just gave her a back pat and left to anotherpart of the floor. i guess i didnt hang around cuz i dont normally hang around with her group of friends.

i felt like it was an inadequate ending to a great dance. what should i have done?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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619joe

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I had a good session with a random girl grinding few weeks ago and the way I did it was just as the song was nearing the end,I said," Hey lemme get your number ill call you up sometime to chill" and she looked up at me and smiled and was glad I asked.Got off platform and completed the transaction and made my way else where.

What are you trying to go for?If its a number ^ its that simple just do that.She probs would have said yes.
 

suaveplayer

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no i already know the girl. i dont need a number. im just dancing with her for the hell of it
 

Daddy The Pimp

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I would do this .

While she's dancing with her ass on my d1ck , i would grab one of her hands , turn it to face me , put her hand on my shoulder , get near her and start smelling her neck . Than you can say " YOU SMELL SO FVCKING GOOD , IM TRYING SO HARD NOT TO KISS YOU " . Watch her reaction . Than continue smelling and kiss lightly her neck . And BOOM . Make out :D .
 

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at the end of the dance or somewhere in it say something along those lines:
"Lets go get a few drinks at the bar."
but if you dont want to do more with her than i dont see the problem just go to get another girl
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tekniq

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Enryu said:
at the end of the dance or somewhere in it say something along those lines:
"Lets go get a few drinks at the bar."
but if you dont want to do more with her than i dont see the problem just go to get another girl
Why do idiots always post in the high school forum giving people advice to go out to a bar?
 

SinJester

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Esculate!!!
 

suaveplayer

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so basically escalate ifyou want her. what if you dont really want her? just leave? talk then leave?
 

Evolution

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well what do u want? If all you want was a grind, then yea thats it. Hit it, and leave it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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suaveplayer

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bumpppp

and also what is the purpose for grinding/dancing with a girl. i feel like its kinda akward for dance pick ups in high school, so i know i want to dance with girls, but i dont know why? (lol this sounds kinda bad)
 

AlexParadox

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suaveplayer said:
and also what is the purpose for grinding/dancing with a girl.
What is the purpose of dancing with a girl? well if you are asking questions like that, what are you doing at school dances?

if you want the technical explanation:
grinding is easy kino. It allows you to escalate physically without any conversation.

An example from my experiences:
Girl just hopes in front of me and starts dancing, i grab her and start grinding. After a song of grinding, i turn her around and start to grind from behind. i pull her in closer and start breathing on her neck, occasionally i brush my lips up/down her neck. With my hands i move to rubbing the inside of her legs (your basically having dry sex). The key to a good "grind" is the synchronized movement of her hips and yours. After making her feel hot, i turn her around.

This is the key moment. I dance closer then i initially danced when i first started. and rest my forehead against hers. If she doesn't move her head away, shes good for kissing. Then just go for it.

If you are feeling super confident when back grinding, you can do this: when you feel its the right moment, put your head beside hers, take your finger and place it beside her chin, tilt her head towards yours and go in for the kill.

now go get some pvssy :rockon:
 
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