"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to about my best bud

dj_jazzybrad

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So I'm going out with this girl Rachel, she's hella cool. Tons of fun, you know the drill. Anyway she used to date my best friend, about a year or so ago. Before I knew her he told me how he kept her love letters after they broke up. He still has them. He just texted me about something and also said that my gf was over at his house... his parents are home, nothings happening, so i'm not worried about that specifically. Now under normal circumstances i would be the first to say "what she does with other guys is her business" but this is my best friend that we're talking about. I just talked to him the other day and he said he doesnt have any feelings for her anymore. I haven't talked to her yet, what should I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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navyseal2101

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I think he does have feeling for her still, she however I cant say for sure, and i'm actually thinking probably thinks of him as a friend. Thats my call. tell me how it goes.
 

Analyzeit

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He's an AFC with oneitis problems, and she probably does think of him as a friend. If you really wanted to what you should of done when he txted is gone to his house, i mean its your best mate and your girlfriend there, and the only reason they would be angry if you turned up, was if they were doing something they shouldn't be,

but just keep a eye on em, everything should be okay, but then i've always thought our ages are a bit more unpredictable when it comes to stuff like this..
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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It aint no fun if the homies cant have some..
 

lalahaha

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one important is rule you should never try to date your friend's ex especially your best bud's. sometimes they might say its OK but its still disrespectful in a way and they might only pretend to be OK with it, don't jeopardize stuff with your bud just for one girl
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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eaglez1177

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First off, why the hell would you EVER date your best friends ex gf? That is such a doucheb*g move bro. Like thats just being a total assh*le.
 
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