"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to about my best bud

dj_jazzybrad

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So I'm going out with this girl Rachel, she's hella cool. Tons of fun, you know the drill. Anyway she used to date my best friend, about a year or so ago. Before I knew her he told me how he kept her love letters after they broke up. He still has them. He just texted me about something and also said that my gf was over at his house... his parents are home, nothings happening, so i'm not worried about that specifically. Now under normal circumstances i would be the first to say "what she does with other guys is her business" but this is my best friend that we're talking about. I just talked to him the other day and he said he doesnt have any feelings for her anymore. I haven't talked to her yet, what should I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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navyseal2101

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I think he does have feeling for her still, she however I cant say for sure, and i'm actually thinking probably thinks of him as a friend. Thats my call. tell me how it goes.
 

Analyzeit

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He's an AFC with oneitis problems, and she probably does think of him as a friend. If you really wanted to what you should of done when he txted is gone to his house, i mean its your best mate and your girlfriend there, and the only reason they would be angry if you turned up, was if they were doing something they shouldn't be,

but just keep a eye on em, everything should be okay, but then i've always thought our ages are a bit more unpredictable when it comes to stuff like this..
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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It aint no fun if the homies cant have some..
 

lalahaha

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one important is rule you should never try to date your friend's ex especially your best bud's. sometimes they might say its OK but its still disrespectful in a way and they might only pretend to be OK with it, don't jeopardize stuff with your bud just for one girl
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eaglez1177

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First off, why the hell would you EVER date your best friends ex gf? That is such a doucheb*g move bro. Like thats just being a total assh*le.
 
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