"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What threads have YOU found useful and/or entertaining on So Suave?

weakepedea

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There are many threads on the forum, some great and some filled with afcness. What threads did you find helpful, entertaining, etc.?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i found chrisZ's and jayer's FRs are helpful and entertaining because it gave some examples of what and how to said it;
 

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I actually think the "Quick Tips" were pretty informative, but then again I read most of them before I found the forums. But other then that I think the Fr's are pretty good.
 

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I found the 'treat women like little girls' thread to be helpful.

The main thing I've learned on the site is to change your inner self first.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I read/searched every thread that had "ganji games", "returning fox". And reading the Book of Pook changed who I am.
 

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Who can skip Skip2myluv posts? Although he was banned, it was not because he tried seducing his dad.
 

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Thanks for the thread suggestions! Keep them coming! If possible, leave a link. I didn't find The Book of Women or skip2mylou's.
 
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