"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What threads have YOU found useful and/or entertaining on So Suave?

weakepedea

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There are many threads on the forum, some great and some filled with afcness. What threads did you find helpful, entertaining, etc.?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i found chrisZ's and jayer's FRs are helpful and entertaining because it gave some examples of what and how to said it;
 

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I actually think the "Quick Tips" were pretty informative, but then again I read most of them before I found the forums. But other then that I think the Fr's are pretty good.
 

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I found the 'treat women like little girls' thread to be helpful.

The main thing I've learned on the site is to change your inner self first.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I read/searched every thread that had "ganji games", "returning fox". And reading the Book of Pook changed who I am.
 

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Who can skip Skip2myluv posts? Although he was banned, it was not because he tried seducing his dad.
 

weakepedea

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Thanks for the thread suggestions! Keep them coming! If possible, leave a link. I didn't find The Book of Women or skip2mylou's.
 
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