"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What threads have YOU found useful and/or entertaining on So Suave?

weakepedea

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There are many threads on the forum, some great and some filled with afcness. What threads did you find helpful, entertaining, etc.?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i found chrisZ's and jayer's FRs are helpful and entertaining because it gave some examples of what and how to said it;
 

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I actually think the "Quick Tips" were pretty informative, but then again I read most of them before I found the forums. But other then that I think the Fr's are pretty good.
 

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I found the 'treat women like little girls' thread to be helpful.

The main thing I've learned on the site is to change your inner self first.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I read/searched every thread that had "ganji games", "returning fox". And reading the Book of Pook changed who I am.
 

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Who can skip Skip2myluv posts? Although he was banned, it was not because he tried seducing his dad.
 

weakepedea

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Thanks for the thread suggestions! Keep them coming! If possible, leave a link. I didn't find The Book of Women or skip2mylou's.
 
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