"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What threads have YOU found useful and/or entertaining on So Suave?

weakepedea

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There are many threads on the forum, some great and some filled with afcness. What threads did you find helpful, entertaining, etc.?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hero

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i found chrisZ's and jayer's FRs are helpful and entertaining because it gave some examples of what and how to said it;
 

j0n024

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I actually think the "Quick Tips" were pretty informative, but then again I read most of them before I found the forums. But other then that I think the Fr's are pretty good.
 

Answers

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I found the 'treat women like little girls' thread to be helpful.

The main thing I've learned on the site is to change your inner self first.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I read/searched every thread that had "ganji games", "returning fox". And reading the Book of Pook changed who I am.
 

amoka

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Who can skip Skip2myluv posts? Although he was banned, it was not because he tried seducing his dad.
 

weakepedea

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Thanks for the thread suggestions! Keep them coming! If possible, leave a link. I didn't find The Book of Women or skip2mylou's.
 
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