"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What the piss. Girl won't talk to me because she thinks I'm ignoring her

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So I left her yesterday when we were hanging out because one of her friends pissed me off and I didn't want to be around her in a bad mood. You know, kill the vibe.

So I left my phone in my dormitory to go out running/walking around, came back at 10 PM and she left me a bunch of voicemails and texts from her saying that she liked me and she went looking for me and that she was having trouble picking between me and another guy. Blah blah blah

So I wasn't able to really reply to her because I was busy doing things like laundry and getting ready for a floor meeting at 1AM, so I texted her back at 1 PM the next day when I woke up.

Now she thinks that I've been ignoring her because I got upset and that keeping it up isn't worth her time.

So I told her that I'd talk to her when I got back from class, and I did, and she's yet to respond. What. The. Piss.

So what's going on here? Anyone been in a similar situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's insulted that you aren't a leeching needy chump that responds asap, and so she's playing the same game on you, just to make herself feel better and get an ego boost.
 

Sp1kez

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WOw dude, run away

Lookslike shes the typical attention *****, she felt she lost your attention so she freaked out and text-bombed you when youw erent replying, when you did reply, she probably realzied that she still has you trapped in her web, so her emotional breakdown subsided


Also don't fight for her, if she cant decide then just use her a s a **** buddy, but do not chase after her....they always go for the guy that turns his back on them
 

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Don't let her **** test you like that, I hate it when girls pull that crap, just recognize that it's a **** test, nothing more. Don't fall into her hoop.

When she pulls that, "oh, I'm deciding between you and another guy" crap, just tell her that it's fine either way, it's not like you're dating her anyway, don't get needy, that's all she's testing you for. Just realize that.

As far as her ignoring you goes, don't put up with her BS, honestly, it doesn't really matter what went down, girls are irrational all the time, don't play into it, if you play into her game, she'll disrespect you.

Stay alpha and never deal with anyone's BS

-Kevin
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cola

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Hughman said:
She's insulted that you aren't a leeching needy chump that responds asap, and so she's playing the same game on you, just to make herself feel better and get an ego boost.
Yep..
And you failed her **** test by responding 2x.
Once and let her be would have been better..
 
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