"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What the piss. Girl won't talk to me because she thinks I'm ignoring her

Vice

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So I left her yesterday when we were hanging out because one of her friends pissed me off and I didn't want to be around her in a bad mood. You know, kill the vibe.

So I left my phone in my dormitory to go out running/walking around, came back at 10 PM and she left me a bunch of voicemails and texts from her saying that she liked me and she went looking for me and that she was having trouble picking between me and another guy. Blah blah blah

So I wasn't able to really reply to her because I was busy doing things like laundry and getting ready for a floor meeting at 1AM, so I texted her back at 1 PM the next day when I woke up.

Now she thinks that I've been ignoring her because I got upset and that keeping it up isn't worth her time.

So I told her that I'd talk to her when I got back from class, and I did, and she's yet to respond. What. The. Piss.

So what's going on here? Anyone been in a similar situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hughman

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She's insulted that you aren't a leeching needy chump that responds asap, and so she's playing the same game on you, just to make herself feel better and get an ego boost.
 

Sp1kez

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WOw dude, run away

Lookslike shes the typical attention *****, she felt she lost your attention so she freaked out and text-bombed you when youw erent replying, when you did reply, she probably realzied that she still has you trapped in her web, so her emotional breakdown subsided


Also don't fight for her, if she cant decide then just use her a s a **** buddy, but do not chase after her....they always go for the guy that turns his back on them
 

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Don't let her **** test you like that, I hate it when girls pull that crap, just recognize that it's a **** test, nothing more. Don't fall into her hoop.

When she pulls that, "oh, I'm deciding between you and another guy" crap, just tell her that it's fine either way, it's not like you're dating her anyway, don't get needy, that's all she's testing you for. Just realize that.

As far as her ignoring you goes, don't put up with her BS, honestly, it doesn't really matter what went down, girls are irrational all the time, don't play into it, if you play into her game, she'll disrespect you.

Stay alpha and never deal with anyone's BS

-Kevin
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cola

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Hughman said:
She's insulted that you aren't a leeching needy chump that responds asap, and so she's playing the same game on you, just to make herself feel better and get an ego boost.
Yep..
And you failed her **** test by responding 2x.
Once and let her be would have been better..
 
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